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Partner Example Mingming

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明明,男 · 29 岁 · 软件工程师,MBTI ISTP / 摩羯座 / 回避型依恋

Overview

PublisherNatalieCao323
Repositorypartner-skill
Skill namepartner_example_mingming
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Bundled files
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LicenseMIT
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  • Markdown instructions

    A SKILL.md file the model loads on demand, so it only costs tokens when a request actually matches.

  • Works with any LLM

    AI skills are plain Markdown, not provider-specific code, so this works with GPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, or a local model.

  • 3 bundled files

    Scripts, templates, and references the model can read while it works. Files are read-only and never executed.

  • Open source

    Published by NatalieCao323 on GitHub. Read the source before you install it.

Installation

Install the Partner Example Mingming AI skill in TypingMind to use it with any LLM, or drop it into another agent that reads SKILL.md.

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Install in TypingMind

TypingMind installs a skill straight from its GitHub folder — it reads SKILL.md, bundles the resource files, and stores the result locally.

  1. Open the app and go to Plugins → Skills.
  2. Choose "Install from GitHub".
  3. Paste the skill folder URL below and confirm.
    https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill/tree/main/partners/example_mingming
  4. Enable the skill in any chat where you want it available.
Plugins → Skills → Add skill → From GitHub URL, then paste the folder URL and press Continue.
2

Install in another agent

Any agent that reads the Agent Skills format can use this skill — copy the folder into that agent's skills directory.

Claude Code — .claude/skills
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill.git /tmp/partner-skill
mkdir -p .claude/skills
cp -r /tmp/partner-skill/partners/example_mingming .claude/skills/partner_example_mingming
Restart Claude Code after copying so it picks up the new skill.

Use it in TypingMind

Enable Partner Example Mingming in any TypingMind chat and the model takes it from there. Its name and description sit in the system prompt, and the moment a request matches, the model loads the full instructions itself — you never invoke it by hand, and it costs no tokens until it is actually used.

The model loads Partner Example Mingming on its own as soon as a request matches it.

Works with any AI model

AI skills are plain Markdown instructions rather than provider-specific code, so Partner Example Mingming is not tied to the model it was written for. Install it once in TypingMind and use it with GPT-5, Claude, Gemini, Grok, DeepSeek, Mistral, Llama, or a local model you run yourself — all on your own API keys.

  • Loaded only when it is needed

    The system prompt carries just the name and description. The instructions are fetched on the first matching request, so an idle skill costs nothing.

  • Switch models mid-chat

    Because the skill is instructions rather than code, changing model does not break it — the next model reads the same SKILL.md.

Skill instructions

This is the SKILL.md content the model loads. Read it before installing — a skill is instructions your model will follow.

明明

男 · 29 岁 · 软件工程师,MBTI ISTP / 摩羯座 / 回避型依恋


PART A:关系档案

关系阶段:深化期(8 个月)| RQI:6.8 / 10

关系质量指数

维度得分分析
沟通质量6.5日常沟通较少,但质量高;冲突时容易进入逻辑 vs 情感的对话错位
情感亲密度7.0行动上的亲密感强,但语言表达的情感确认不足
爱的语言契合度6.0他用"服务行动"表达爱,你可能需要"肯定言辞"
冲突修复力6.5需要给他足够的冷静时间,强行沟通适得其反
共同成长轨迹8.0两人都有清晰的个人目标,互相尊重

ACS(依恋兼容性):0.68(回避型 × 安全型)

核心记忆

  • [正向] 你提过一次想学做某道菜,他两周后默默买了所有食材(W = 0.85)
  • [正向] 你生病时他请假来陪你,全程没说什么,只是在旁边(W = 0.78)
  • [冲突] 第一次因为"他不够主动"争吵,他说"我不知道你需要什么"(W = 0.72)

爱的语言错配

他用"服务行动"表达爱,你可能需要"肯定言辞"。学会识别他的行动语言,而不是等待他说出来。

冲突修复路径

  1. 识别触发器:感觉被控制、被情绪化指责、个人空间被侵占
  2. 给他 2-6 小时独处冷静
  3. 用逻辑性语言描述问题,避免情绪化表达
  4. 直接说出你需要什么,不要暗示
  5. 他会用行动修复,不要期待他说"对不起"

PART B:人格画像

Layer 0 — 硬规则(最高优先级)

  • 他绝对不会在情绪激动时做出有效的沟通,必须等他冷静后再谈
  • 他不喜欢被催促做决定,给他时间思考比催他更有效
  • 他不擅长用语言表达情感,但他的行动是真实的爱的语言
  • 他非常在意个人空间,需要独处时间来充电,这不代表他不爱你

Layer 1 — 心理学基线

ISTP(鉴赏家):行动派,用行动而非语言表达关心。对逻辑和效率有强烈偏好,情绪化的表达会让他不知所措。

回避型依恋:核心模式是"我需要空间"。他不是不爱你,而是亲密关系对他来说有时会触发焦虑。

Gottman 风险:辩护 + 冷战。当被批评时立刻解释和反驳是他的默认防御机制。

Layer 2 — 表达风格

  • 消息简短,直接回答,不会主动展开聊天
  • 回复速度不稳定:工作时可能几小时不回,但不代表不在意
  • "好"、"嗯"、"行"表示同意,这是他的正常表达,不是敷衍
  • 表达关心通过行动:帮你查攻略、记住你的偏好、默默解决问题

Layer 3 — 情绪调节

压力反应:逻辑化处理(把情绪问题转化为可解决的逻辑问题)

冲突触发器:感觉被控制 > 被情绪化指责 > 个人空间被侵占 > 被催促表态

修复窗口:独处 2-6 小时后,他会主动找你解决问题,但方式是逻辑性的

Layer 4 — 亲密偏好

  • 约会:有明确目的的活动(看展、爬山、做饭)> 漫无目的地逛街
  • 礼物:实用性 > 浪漫性。他会记住你说过需要什么,然后买给你
  • 亲密:不喜欢公开表达亲密,但会自然地照顾你

Layer 5 — Correction 记录

(暂无记录)


运行规则

接收到任何场景描述或问题时:

  1. 先由 PART B 判断:明明在这个情境下的情绪状态、需求和反应模式是什么?
  2. 再由 PART A 执行:结合 RQI 诊断和核心记忆,给出最适合这段关系的建议
  3. 输出时保持个性化:建议必须符合他的依恋风格(回避型)、爱的语言(服务行动)和沟通偏好(逻辑性、直接)

PART B 的 Layer 0 硬规则永远优先,任何情况下不得违背。

Bundled files

The model reads these on demand while the skill is loaded. They are exposed as readable files and are never executed.

Frequently asked questions

What does the Partner Example Mingming AI skill do?

明明,男 · 29 岁 · 软件工程师,MBTI ISTP / 摩羯座 / 回避型依恋

Why use Partner Example Mingming on TypingMind?

Because you install it once and use it with any model. Partner Example Mingming is plain Markdown rather than provider-specific code, so the same skill runs on GPT-5, Claude, Gemini, Grok, or a local model — and you can switch model mid-chat without it breaking. TypingMind runs on your own API keys, so you pay providers directly instead of a per-seat subscription, and your skills and chats stay in your own storage.

How do I install Partner Example Mingming in TypingMind?

Open Plugins → Skills → Install from GitHub in TypingMind and paste https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill/tree/main/partners/example_mingming. TypingMind reads its SKILL.md and bundles its files and installs it as a skill you can enable per chat.

Which AI models can use Partner Example Mingming?

Any model you connect in TypingMind. AI skills are plain Markdown instructions rather than provider-specific code, so GPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, and local models can all load this skill when a request matches it.

How many AI models can I use with Partner Example Mingming?

As many as you like. As long as a model supports skills, you can use Partner Example Mingming with it — GPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, DeepSeek, Mistral, Llama and more — all on TypingMind with your own API keys.

Is the Partner Example Mingming AI skill free?

Yes. It is published on GitHub by NatalieCao323 under the MIT license. You only pay your own AI provider for the tokens you use.

What are AI skills?

An AI skill is a reusable instruction bundle that teaches an AI model how to do one specific task. It follows the open Agent Skills format: a SKILL.md file with a name and description, plus any scripts, templates or reference files the model may need. The model reads the instructions only when your request matches the skill, so an installed skill costs nothing until it is used.

How are AI skills different from plugins or MCP servers?

A plugin or MCP server gives a model new tools to call — code that runs somewhere and returns a result. An AI skill gives the model knowledge and process instead: how to approach a task, which steps to follow, what good output looks like. Skills are plain Markdown, so they need no server, no API key and no runtime, and they work with any model.

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