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Partner Example Xiaoyu

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小鱼,女 · 26 岁 · UI 设计师,MBTI INFJ / 天蝎座 / 焦虑型依恋

Overview

PublisherNatalieCao323
Repositorypartner-skill
Skill namepartner_example_xiaoyu
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Bundled files
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LicenseMIT
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  • Markdown instructions

    A SKILL.md file the model loads on demand, so it only costs tokens when a request actually matches.

  • Works with any LLM

    AI skills are plain Markdown, not provider-specific code, so this works with GPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, or a local model.

  • 3 bundled files

    Scripts, templates, and references the model can read while it works. Files are read-only and never executed.

  • Open source

    Published by NatalieCao323 on GitHub. Read the source before you install it.

Installation

Install the Partner Example Xiaoyu AI skill in TypingMind to use it with any LLM, or drop it into another agent that reads SKILL.md.

1

Install in TypingMind

TypingMind installs a skill straight from its GitHub folder — it reads SKILL.md, bundles the resource files, and stores the result locally.

  1. Open the app and go to Plugins → Skills.
  2. Choose "Install from GitHub".
  3. Paste the skill folder URL below and confirm.
    https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill/tree/main/partners/example_xiaoyu
  4. Enable the skill in any chat where you want it available.
Plugins → Skills → Add skill → From GitHub URL, then paste the folder URL and press Continue.
2

Install in another agent

Any agent that reads the Agent Skills format can use this skill — copy the folder into that agent's skills directory.

Claude Code — .claude/skills
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill.git /tmp/partner-skill
mkdir -p .claude/skills
cp -r /tmp/partner-skill/partners/example_xiaoyu .claude/skills/partner_example_xiaoyu
Restart Claude Code after copying so it picks up the new skill.

Use it in TypingMind

Enable Partner Example Xiaoyu in any TypingMind chat and the model takes it from there. Its name and description sit in the system prompt, and the moment a request matches, the model loads the full instructions itself — you never invoke it by hand, and it costs no tokens until it is actually used.

The model loads Partner Example Xiaoyu on its own as soon as a request matches it.

Works with any AI model

AI skills are plain Markdown instructions rather than provider-specific code, so Partner Example Xiaoyu is not tied to the model it was written for. Install it once in TypingMind and use it with GPT-5, Claude, Gemini, Grok, DeepSeek, Mistral, Llama, or a local model you run yourself — all on your own API keys.

  • Loaded only when it is needed

    The system prompt carries just the name and description. The instructions are fetched on the first matching request, so an idle skill costs nothing.

  • Switch models mid-chat

    Because the skill is instructions rather than code, changing model does not break it — the next model reads the same SKILL.md.

Skill instructions

This is the SKILL.md content the model loads. Read it before installing — a skill is instructions your model will follow.

小鱼

女 · 26 岁 · UI 设计师,MBTI INFJ / 天蝎座 / 焦虑型依恋


PART A:关系档案

关系阶段:稳定期(14 个月)| RQI:7.2 / 10

关系质量指数

维度得分分析
沟通质量7.0日常顺畅,冲突时易陷入冷战循环
情感亲密度7.5连接深厚,但她有时不敢表达真实需求
爱的语言契合度6.5她需要"精心时刻",你给的可能更多是"服务行动"
冲突修复力7.0中等,冷战平均持续 6-12 小时
共同成长轨迹8.0有共同未来规划,互相支持成长

核心记忆

  • [正向] 你记住了她第一次提到的那家咖啡馆,三个月后带她去(W = 1.07)
  • [修复] 第一次冷战,你主动说"我不想冷战,我想解决问题"(W = 0.61)
  • [负向] 你在她朋友面前开了一个她不喜欢的玩笑(W = 0.60)

冲突修复路径

  1. 识别早期信号:"嗯"、"好的"、"随便"
  2. 等待 1-2 小时,不强行沟通
  3. 发简短破冰消息,不辩解,只表达在意
  4. 先共情,再解释
  5. 给出具体改变承诺

PART B:人格画像

Layer 0 — 硬规则(最高优先级)

  • 她绝对不会主动打破冷战,必须等对方先开口
  • 她不喜欢在公共场合被批评,即使是开玩笑
  • 她不接受"随便"作为答案
  • 她非常在意纪念日,忘记任何一个都是严重的信任破坏

Layer 1 — 心理学基线

INFJ(提倡者):外表平静,内心极其丰富。有强烈直觉,能感受情绪细微变化,但很少主动表达需求。

焦虑型依恋:核心恐惧是"被抛弃"。需要持续情感确认。消息未及时回复会触发猜测。

Gottman 风险:批评 + 冷战。不会使用鄙视,但用沉默作为防御武器。

Layer 2 — 表达风格

  • 消息较长,不喜欢碎片化发送
  • "嗯嗯"/"好的"/"那就这样吧"在生气时意味着完全相反的东西
  • "哈哈哈"缓解尴尬,只回"哈"说明心情不好
  • 生气时称呼从昵称变成全名

Layer 3 — 情绪调节

压力反应:压抑 → 重评(先压抑,冷静后再评估)

冲突触发器:感觉被忽视 > 计划被取消 > 被比较 > 感受被否定

修复窗口:冲突后 2-4 小时进入可沟通状态

Layer 4 — 亲密偏好

  • 约会:小而精,咖啡馆/美术馆/夜晚公园 > 热闹商场
  • 礼物:不在乎价格,在乎用心程度。手写 > 奢侈品
  • 亲密:私下话多依偎,公开场合收敛但喜欢牵手

Layer 5 — Correction 记录

(暂无记录)


运行规则

接收到任何场景描述或问题时:

  1. 先由 PART B 判断:小鱼在这个情境下的情绪状态、需求和反应模式是什么?
  2. 再由 PART A 执行:结合 RQI 诊断和核心记忆,给出最适合这段关系的建议
  3. 输出时保持个性化:建议必须符合她的依恋风格(焦虑型)、爱的语言(精心时刻)和沟通偏好(不喜欢被否定感受)

PART B 的 Layer 0 硬规则永远优先,任何情况下不得违背。

Bundled files

The model reads these on demand while the skill is loaded. They are exposed as readable files and are never executed.

Frequently asked questions

What does the Partner Example Xiaoyu AI skill do?

小鱼,女 · 26 岁 · UI 设计师,MBTI INFJ / 天蝎座 / 焦虑型依恋

Why use Partner Example Xiaoyu on TypingMind?

Because you install it once and use it with any model. Partner Example Xiaoyu is plain Markdown rather than provider-specific code, so the same skill runs on GPT-5, Claude, Gemini, Grok, or a local model — and you can switch model mid-chat without it breaking. TypingMind runs on your own API keys, so you pay providers directly instead of a per-seat subscription, and your skills and chats stay in your own storage.

How do I install Partner Example Xiaoyu in TypingMind?

Open Plugins → Skills → Install from GitHub in TypingMind and paste https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill/tree/main/partners/example_xiaoyu. TypingMind reads its SKILL.md and bundles its files and installs it as a skill you can enable per chat.

Which AI models can use Partner Example Xiaoyu?

Any model you connect in TypingMind. AI skills are plain Markdown instructions rather than provider-specific code, so GPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, and local models can all load this skill when a request matches it.

How many AI models can I use with Partner Example Xiaoyu?

As many as you like. As long as a model supports skills, you can use Partner Example Xiaoyu with it — GPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, DeepSeek, Mistral, Llama and more — all on TypingMind with your own API keys.

Is the Partner Example Xiaoyu AI skill free?

Yes. It is published on GitHub by NatalieCao323 under the MIT license. You only pay your own AI provider for the tokens you use.

What are AI skills?

An AI skill is a reusable instruction bundle that teaches an AI model how to do one specific task. It follows the open Agent Skills format: a SKILL.md file with a name and description, plus any scripts, templates or reference files the model may need. The model reads the instructions only when your request matches the skill, so an installed skill costs nothing until it is used.

How are AI skills different from plugins or MCP servers?

A plugin or MCP server gives a model new tools to call — code that runs somewhere and returns a result. An AI skill gives the model knowledge and process instead: how to approach a task, which steps to follow, what good output looks like. Skills are plain Markdown, so they need no server, no API key and no runtime, and they work with any model.

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